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Meet the Williamson
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The
Williamson Family—for the purposes of this article consists of William Davis
Williamson (more popularly know as “Red”, Jackie (Viola Mae or Sissy),
Wanda, Clifton, Wanda Lee, Jacque Ruth and David.
Jackie and Red were married, probably, about 1947 or
1948. They spent many of their year’s together living near Hobbs NM and then
in west Texas. They also lived in Morgan City LA, and Orange TX for a few
years. Red was employed in the oil industry. Upon his retirement, they chose
to live near the rest of the family on Black Lake just out of Campti LA.
They enjoyed their two children—Clifton and Wanda.
Wanda passed away in 15 December 1998 after a long bout with cancer. She was
always laughing. She had some struggles during her life, but she was always
happy. She probably inherited this disposition from her mother. (More about
that later.)
Wanda’s two daughters—Wanda Lee and Jacque
Ruth—have tried to carry on without her. Wanda Lee has one son, David. They
still live in the North Louisiana area.
Now, to be a little more personal—Jackie is my
first cousin. She is a little older than I am. I spent much time being near
her and her family in my childhood years. Her mother, Aunt Ruth, was my
mother’s sister. Due to the closeness of the Cain Family, we spent
vacations, Christmas, Thanksgiving and many other happy times together—just
one big family—up until the time I married we still saw each other often.
But after my move to Beaumont TX getting married, and taking care of my
family, we didn’t see her as often. Also, she and her family moved which
hindered our visits. But, even though we were not geographically close, I
still continued to feel very close to her.
When
Jackie passed away, our son, Nathan, was asked to assist with her service.
He asked me to give him a few of my memories of her to help him have a
better background of her earlier life. Here is a copy of my memories.
Viola Mae Manning Williamson, better know as
“Jackie”, enjoyed a very happy marriage with her husband, W. D. ”Red”
Williamson. Red went on to be with the Lord 23 September 1991. Jackie
continued to miss him until God took her home on 13 March 2002.
She loved her children, Wanda and Clifton, and her
grandchildren, Jacque Ruth and Wanda Lee, and great grandson, David. Her
greatest desire for them was that they live for God. She often asked others
to help her pray for them. Some of her happiest times in her later years
were when they could all be together for a happy family meal on Thanksgiving
and Christmas. Due to family illness and bad weather they did not get to
have this family time for either Thanksgiving or Christmas this past year.
She loved gospel singing and often called Bro.
Thomas O’Conn—who had a gospel program early in the morning—to request songs
which she especially enjoyed. She and Bro. O’Conn got to be pretty good
buddies since she called so often.
Reading was Jackie’s favorite pastime. She spent
many enjoyable hours with her books. Christian fiction or historical fiction
was her preference. She especially enjoyed our Pentecostal authors. However,
her most favorite were biographies and autobiographies of our pioneer
Pentecostal trail blazers. She would read all of her books over and over.
Jackie had much sadness in her lifetime, but she
could always laugh. If anyone inquired as to how she was doing—after a big
giggle—she would say, “You don’t want to know”. This usually brought a
response of—“It can’t be too bad with a giggle like that”. This would bring
on another big giggle. Most likely this was a trait her Dad passed on to
her. He always giggled when something amused him. Jackie was told by many
people she wouldn’t make it if she ever lost her laugh.
She loved God. She enjoyed going to church and did
so as long as she was physically able and had the necessary transportation.
The Lord was always a part of her conversation. She talked about how good He
is and how He did more for her than anyone. She felt so blessed to be a part
of a large family that loved God. She had great faith. When something went
wrong—and it did quite often—she called for prayer. The next time you
checked with her, the need had been met. She looked forward each summer to
the Louisiana Camp Meeting on the campground near Tioga and Alexandria.
Regardless of where she was living she always traveled to the Camp Meeting
as long as her health permitted.
And now her battle is over—her struggle is passed.
She has made it to the other side to be with the Lord whom she loved so
much. She has won her victory.
Conclusion: I spent many hours on the telephone
with Jackie during her last few years—calling her almost daily. I still miss
her very much.
By: Melba Dupree—Cousin
J ackie was
about 3½ years older than me, but we always had something in common, I
guess, because we were buddies through the years. She was very special to
me. Before she and Red got married, we were close and had lots of fun
together.
After she and Red married and lived in Morgan City
LA, I visited them some. Later they moved to Pinehurst TX (which is near
Beaumont), so we were back and forth visiting each other. While they were
living there, she would come to Beaumont to baby sit. My mother, May Ward,
was also baby sitting and would find jobs for Jackie. One night they were
both working and we had a bad flood in Beaumont and I was so worried about
both of them getting home. I think Jackie got home before Mom did. I must
have spent most of the night worrying about them, but they finally made it
in safely.
From here, Red was transferred to Hobbs NM. I
really hated to see them leave. In 1973, I took Mom, Pop and Aunt Ruth to
Hobbs to see them. While we were there, Jackie and Clifton took us to
Carlsbad Cavern. It was a long day, but we really enjoyed it. We stayed
several days in Hobbs and while we were there, I stayed at night with Marie
and had some good visits with her. That’s the last time I saw her but we
were in touch by telephone until she passed away. I drove all the way out
there and back and I don’t know when I have ever been so tired.
Red was such a jolly person and I always enjoyed
being around him. He was a hard worker and was good to help other people,
too.
Wanda and her girls lived across the road from Mom
and Pop at Black Lake for several years—until Pop had a heart attack and had
to come to Beaumont for us to take care of them. Wanda was real good to
drive them and see about them when they weren’t able to help themselves
until some of us could get up there to see about them.
I was real glad when Red, Jackie and Clifton moved
to Black Lake after he retired. I know Jackie wanted to be near her mother
and dad. As our lives changed, so did theirs. Aunt Ruth and Uncle Olon,
moved to Haynesville and were there until they passed away.
I know Jackie had some lonely times after they left
but she really loved God and depended on Him. He is our only hope in this
world and the only One any of us can depend on. I miss Jackie and Red, also
Wanda, Aunt Ruth and Uncle Olon.
By: Margaret Ward—Cousin
I n my years
of growing up, I hardly saw Red, Sissy and their family except at Black Lake
and then, not a whole lot. I remember seeing Wanda more during those times
that I do Red and Sissy, because she would sometimes be outside with us
kids. I remember Red being a nice fellow. In later years, I got to know
Sissy better when we were at Camp Meeting together. Sissy loved Camp
Meeting. She would go to many of the services and be so happy from the
blessings of the Lord received there. I think it was the closest to “heaven
on earth” that Sissy experienced. After Aunt Ruth passed away, she mentioned
more than once about being very discouraged one time when she was living in
Hobbs, I believe, and she called Aunt Ruth. Aunt Ruth told her that the
Bible says in Romans 8:35,38, 39 “Who shall separate us from the love of
Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or
nakedness, or peril, or sword? For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor
life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor
thing to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able
to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” So,
Sissy was encouraged and went obeying the Lord.
Sissy spoke of Red playing the guitar and singing
(I believe). I guess maybe Clifton got his love of music from Red. Red
seemed to be a very hard worker, working from can to can’t. Evidently
Clifton is a good cook, making pies from “scratch” from what Sissy said and
he enjoys reading.
One intriguing trademark about the Manning family
is their laughing. I suppose it came from Uncle Olon since he loved to tease
kids and laugh at them. If you stop to think about it, Mary Lou laughs,
Sissy laughed, Wanda laughed and I think Wanda Lee and Jacque Ruth and
probably others in the family—it is a special type of laugh that is so
enjoyable, and lifts your spirits. Sissy could be sooooo down and have so
many troubles, but she could still laugh about it as if her troubles didn’t
exist!
Wanda, Wanda Lee, and Jacque Ruth have enjoyed
having a special meal at times for Aunt Ruth and Uncle Olon, then later
Sissy and Clifton. Wanda Lee has carried a big load working hard trying to
take care of her mother before she passed away, helping Jacque Ruth and
raising David and helping see after Sissy shortly before she passed away.
The times I have been around Jacque Ruth, she has seemed happy and sweet.
David loved his grandmother Wanda. I met Leslie at Sissy’s funeral service
and she seemed to be a loving person. David and Leslie and I am sure Wanda
Lee and Jacque are all enjoying the newest edition to the family, Rose
Lynelle, born 11 November 2003.
By: Linda Hilburn—Cousin
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This site was last updated
10/02/04
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