More on May
and Elmer Ward!
Two issues ago we featured May and Elmer,
but space constraints didn’t permit inclusion of my say on these two
wonderful people.
Two of my personal favorites! They always made you feel so incredibly
welcome in their home and camp at Black Lake. Plus I always loved to visit
them in their Beaumont home because the city was so different from living in
Cotton Valley—indeed three miles outside Cotton Valley in the “sticks”.
Neighbors right next door including children to play with—we had some
fantastic kick ball competitions in their front yard with the neighborhood
children. They in-turn enjoyed the country, May in particular it seemed
loved to visit us. It seemed she made it a point to come and come often,
because she loved Jessie and Bessie so much. Often she was visited by
herself especially later in life, but quite often the whole Beaumont clan
came along especially during the holidays—Thanksgiving and Christmas. Good
times!
When it comes to couples, “opposites attract” seems to have applied to
May and Elmer, at least in my youth’s eye view this was certainly the case.
May loved a good laugh and wasn’t above a good prank on unsuspecting young
boys. I well remember a couple of incidents where she “got me”. Once I was
pestering—of course I was always busy pestering—and I don’t remember the
exact context, but I believe I must have been after her to share or give me
something. She gave me something all right—she grabbed my outstretched hand
and spit right into it! That taught me a lesson if a brief one! (I
understand I wasn’t alone in receiving that surprise though!) Another
incident which stays with me, was also many years ago at our home. I was
outside the kitchen window and was busy pestering May through the
window—probably being very obnoxious and loud. I’d do my thing then beat a
hasty retreat, but she caught me out about the third or fourth round and
doused me good with water thrown right through the window screen. Having
believed I was safe, I’m sure I had a very surprised look which caused her
to laugh and laugh!
By comparison, as a small boy I was always a bit reluctant to get too
close to Elmer due to his abrupt manner—guess I was just a little
intimidated and didn’t understand his personality as a lad. But he too was
obviously as good as gold because otherwise he’d have given Jon Barker and I
a lot of trouble after we dumped his outboard motor into Black Lake (see
Jon’s account in Volume 3 Issue 3 dated July 2003). Unbelievably he never
said a word to us about it! He too was entertaining—just without intending
to be I think. Many is the time we have had a good chuckle about his
fishing—the way he always wanted the engine’s throttle opened up—even when
crossing Black Lake’s stump and snag infested “gar wallow”. Shear pins were
always a required “accessory” when you were in the boat with Elmer! And that
small aluminum fishing boat of his, which was unsteady underfoot and so
noisy—it is a wonder he could catch a fish. From some distance away it was
very easy to hear him making his way from the front to the back of the boat
and vice versa, and hauling his fish stringer out of the lake! Bless his
heart though—many is the time he towed us out to the channel and back—always
without a complaint. I always admired his taste in automobiles though—as I
remember he always drove Pontiacs. Whenever they visited I always waited
with anticipation to see if they had another new “Poncho”. Might have had
something to do with my first two cars being Pontiacs.
I suppose the most telling thing I can say which captures the goodness of
May and Elmer, is their outstanding character and strong love of God and
family. I point out how they helped provide for Mary Lou Belle and the three
girls after Alan died. They practically raised Bessie you might say, and Ada
and Jessie also spent lots of time in their home. But the bottom line for me
is their own family. If a good measure of a couple is how their children
turned out, May and Elmer get an A+. They raised such nice children who
in-turn have done an equally admirable job with their families. I have
always said that the “Beaumont bunch” are some of the best people one can
ever meet and I’m very proud to call them family!
By: Donald Hilburn—Nephew